Candy Jones
Candy Jones was a Black American woman in the Montgomery, Alabama area, married to Micah Jones and mother to Miles and Noah. She first met Elliot Landry and his mother, Jazmine Landry, around 2006–2007, when Elliot was three. A friendship with Jazmine and a bond with Elliot began before Candy took on regular childcare in 2008, when he was five. She became Elliot’s chosen mother without displacing Jazmine, providing food, patient communication, refuge, school advocacy, and a home that treated him as family.
Meeting the Landrys
Candy had recently moved near Jazmine when they met. Knowing the strain of caring for two young sons of her own, she came to Jazmine’s apartment with muffins and offered company without pressing for an explanation. Jazmine was exhausted by work and by doctors and others dismissing her concerns about Elliot’s health. Candy listened, believed that Jazmine knew her child, and encouraged her to take a hot shower while Candy stayed with him. The first help she offered was small and immediate: food, time to wash, and another adult willing to notice what Jazmine was carrying.
Three-year-old Elliot woke while Jazmine was in the shower and became anxious when he could not find her. Candy told him exactly where his mother was and that she would return. She offered him a muffin, gave him room to approach it without being crowded, and attended to his gestures and posture instead of demanding speech. Elliot’s pleasure in her muffins became an early part of their bond. Later that day, Micah invited Jazmine and Elliot to dinner; Candy and Jazmine made room for Elliot to accept or decline in his own way. Candy learned from Jazmine how to read his answer rather than assuming silence meant he had none.
The friendship also gave Jazmine someone who validated her observations when professionals had not. Candy spoke of the fight her sister had faced to get her autistic nephew assessed. She did not claim to know everything about Elliot; she believed his mother and paid attention to the child in front of her.
Personality and Caregiving
Candy was warm, perceptive, practical, and fiercely protective. She noticed needs early and acted on them without making the person receiving help perform gratitude. Her gentleness was not passivity: she gave Elliot time and quiet when he was overwhelmed, then confronted adults and institutions that mistreated him. With children, she favored accommodation and redirection over punishment. She taught Miles and Noah by example that sharing food, space, and protection with Elliot was ordinary family care, not charity.
Her care was not always effortless. When young Elliot woke from a long crash tearful and unable to explain what was wrong, Candy first thought he missed Jazmine. She realized he was also desperately hungry, brought him food, and made clear that he could ask her for it. She learned his rhythms over time: hunger, fatigue, pain, sensory overload, and the moments when presence helped more than questions. She offered muffins and apple juice before hunger became a crisis, made quiet corners and blanket shelters available, allowed rest breaks, and helped him communicate through basic signs when spoken words were difficult. His body was never treated as a burden or his need for food as a failure of self-control.
Candy’s protectiveness included steadiness under pressure and a willingness to organize practical help. When the family could not reach Jazmine after Elliot collapsed from severe overheating at school, Candy responded as his secondary emergency contact, reached Jazmine through her workplace, and arrived at the school before her. At home, Candy helped cool and comfort Elliot while he remained nauseated, exhausted, and in pain. She advocated for his school accommodations and challenged punishment for disability-related behavior.
Cultural Identity and Heritage
Candy was Black American and raised her family in the Montgomery area. Her own practice of hospitality and chosen kinship shaped the Jones household: she fed children who were hungry, made room for different ways of communicating, and stood beside Jazmine when medical and school systems dismissed Elliot. Elliot was a mixed Black American and Puerto Rican child whom Candy treated as a son. She made that commitment in the daily work of feeding, protecting, and advocating for him.
Speech and Presentation
Candy spoke to children directly and warmly, including when Elliot could not answer in words. She explained what was happening, offered choices, and let him set the pace. With Jazmine, her humor could be brisk and affectionate; she offered respite without making a ceremony of it. In one remembered exchange, after Jazmine explained how Elliot communicated a yes, Candy answered, “Then I’ll listen too. However he says it.”
On one early morning, Candy answered the door in a robe with her hair wrapped in a faded scarf. She wore a sweatshirt when she held Elliot through a painful night and gold bangles while she prepared food with Jazmine and Melinda during the pandemic.
Family and Core Relationships
Micah Jones
Micah was Candy’s husband and parenting partner. Together they raised Miles and Noah and welcomed Elliot into their family. He backed Candy’s decision to help Jazmine, invited her and Elliot to a family dinner soon after they met, and shared in the daily care that followed. When the Landrys’ apartment became medically unsafe, Candy and Micah purchased a home with an attached suite around 2013–2014, giving Jazmine and Elliot their own living space while keeping them close to the Jones household.
Miles Jones and Noah Jones
Miles and Noah were Candy and Micah’s sons. When Candy first met three-year-old Elliot, Miles was about five and Noah about two. The boys welcomed him into their play and grew up with him as a chosen brother; regular childcare from 2008 made an existing friendship part of their daily routine. Candy modeled how to share without resentment and how to let a child approach slowly when noise or touch was too much. Years later, she watched their protective loyalty become action during Elliot’s school and medical crises.
Elliot Landry
Main article: Elliot Landry and Candy Jones
Candy provided childcare for Elliot while Jazmine worked, beginning regularly when he was five. By then she already knew the three-year-old who had smiled over her muffins and communicated without many words. She recognized his hunger crashes, offered food before they became crises, taught him basic signs when expressive speech was difficult, and created quiet spaces where he could regulate. Her couch remained a safe place for him to rest through childhood and adolescence. Candy taught him through repeated care that his softness was not weakness, that needing help did not make him a burden, and that he deserved safety without having to earn it.
Candy was listed as Elliot’s secondary emergency contact at school. She attended advocacy meetings, pressed for accommodations, and responded when he became severely overheated and came close to heatstroke during physical education at age eleven. Noah stayed with Elliot in the nurse’s office; after the school could not reach Jazmine, Candy contacted her and helped bring Elliot home. Her home also remained a refuge when he returned bruised or crying from abuse at Sean’s house or needed rest and support after contact with Reggie.
Jazmine Landry
Candy was one of Jazmine’s closest friends as well as Elliot’s chosen mother. She supported Jazmine by sharing childcare and advocacy rather than replacing her role as Elliot’s mother. Their friendship began with a visit, muffins, and an offer to watch Elliot while Jazmine showered; it continued through years of working together to get him care. When the Landrys’ apartment became mold-infested and medically unsafe, Candy and Micah’s attached-suite arrangement gave them stable housing near the Jones family.
Community Care and Advocacy
Candy’s support for Elliot combined daily care with practical advocacy. She helped address his communication, sensory, nutritional, school, emergency, and housing needs while treating him as part of her family. When he was fifteen and struggling through back-to-school shopping, she searched clearance bins with the other women supporting him and defended a small purchase that made the day easier: “Kid needs a win.”
As the pandemic threatened Elliot, Candy shared Jazmine and Melinda’s worry about the risks facing their children, including the unequal burdens placed on Black families. She helped Elliot when he came home ill and distressed from grocery-store work, brought him water and a cool rag, and returned when his condition worsened. During his hospitalization, she helped prepare the van for the hospital trip, drove with Micah and Noah behind Elliot’s transport, stayed near the hospital, and comforted Noah through the news that Elliot needed ventilation. She supported Miles’s campaign asking the community to send Elliot letters and later helped Jazmine prepare his home for his return.
Related Entries
- Micah Jones
- Miles Jones
- Noah Jones
- Elliot Landry
- Jazmine Landry
- Elliot Landry and Candy Jones
- Elliot’s P.E. Near-Heatstroke Crisis (Age 11)
- Elliot Landry’s COVID-19 Hospitalization (2021–2022 School Year) - Event